All this centering your feelings love…this is not the thread for that. You did exactly what the post said don’t do. If I’d bet money on folks like you, I’d be rich.
In high White fashion, you can’t be quiet, you can’t decenter yourself, you’re tone policing and concern trolling while ignoring everything I complained about. Your entire post is so self-serving, narcissistic, I’d erase it. It’s the epitome of my don’t list.
It must be hard to be so blind and fragile.