Good for you! I enjoyed this. I’m still trying to figure things out. I went to a gay bar a few weeks ago and it was the exact experience I read about. A bunch of mean angry women sitting around staring at each other wanting to get laid. If you didn’t come with someone you’d be out of luck. If I would’ve come alone I would’ve felt it was a waste of my time. I felt bad for the ladies who got dressed up to sit at a table with a scowl on her face.

Your experiences sound fun and organic. Women are a hard nut to crack. I’m still figuring this thing out. I’m very happy with my relationship. It’s like on the job training, but finally having the emotional connection I’ve been missing in my life since forever is satisfying. Explore, and have fun. I wish fluid and bi women would make it easier to identify them. Sure would make connecting easier.

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