Good for you! We deserve better. White/Europeans need to know there are lines. They are not entitled to all of our places and spaces as they please. Slavery is over. We don’t owe them answers to their stupid intrusive questions or niceness. Friends offended weren’t friends anyway. You’re not their teachers and you’re not responsible for their comfort. That’s their mother’s responsibility. Maintain your peace and dignity. If you don’t, they won’t.