Great piece Joe. I can’t tell you how many times my partner would just be quiet instead of talking dirty because he was so awful at it. It’s not for everyone, talking dirty that is.

Men who watch too much porn are the worst. They say all the vulgar porny stuff that makes your vagina literally dry up lol.

How good I make a guy feel during sex is always a turn on for me.

Gentle whispers, very limited vulgarity, and no porny language (unless he knows she likes it). Too much talking distracts from concentrating on getting the big O. You gave great advice.

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