I agree Veronika. The things we have to do to just exist in their spaces is pretty exhausting. But you’re right, the people who do these things won’t read this. Instead, they will deny it, turn their noses up at it, or come into the comments after they see the first “White people” to tell me how racist I am.

They don’t listen to us and they can’t hear us. The world must revolve around them at all times. I’m glad you were able to relate to the short list of stupid things we get asked while in their hoarded spaces. Thanks for reading.

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