I don’t think lowering expectations is the proper wording for what I feel this is. It’s called keeping it real. Life is not black and white. Some things and situations you don’t really understand until you’re knee deep in it and its too late (i.e. marriage, kids, personality types of spouses). The shit’s easy to get into…hard as hell to get out of. People do what they need to do to cope. Comfort women is a method to cope. Call it good or bad, but men (and women) have provided consensual comfort for ages. Monogamy means different things to different people, just like being submissive does. As long as the two people are fine with it, nothing really else matters! 🍷

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