I enjoyed this read. I could see all that you’ve shared in Jared. I see more, but it would be inappropriate to say without evidence. Some people are transparent, no matter how much they try to hide. Good people coming into contact with these types of people is bad for your health. You don’t realize it until the end of the relationship. Fake it until you make it is a dangerous game to play. Sorry you had to learn this the hard way, but it sure did make an interesting story.