I have a right to be angry, and to disassociate myself from people who harm me, including family. It’s not about forgiving for me. I wrote to show how people harm children and we must carry the burden and hurts until they die. She should have asked me to forgive her. I did nothing wrong to be released from. I do understand your view, I just don’t agree with it. Some time there is a freedom in talking about the emotional abuse caused by family members. I set myself free.