I have dated a guy who consumed large amounts of porn for a long time and jerked off so much he couldn’t get an erection. We talked about his porn use and his childhood sexual abuse, but I couldn’t get over how he treated when it came to intimacy and sex. He was crude, a little barbaric, and rough. No matter how much we talked about it he seemed to be unable to grasp my feelings. I eventually got tired of him and we split. Men who consume large amounts of porn change. They are difficult to be with intimately and quite abrasive. Porn has very little to do with intimacy and respectability and everything to do with sex for men. No foreplay, no intimacy, no connection, just raw, rough sex and no satisfaction of the woman.

I’m good and I also pass on guys who indulge on excessive porn. It’s bad for our emotional health.

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