I have seen a broad array of killers, predators of killers. A lot of them are very good looking. You can’t worry about looks. You gotta worry about the actions. I mean I have had people that I suspected of following me who were really going the same place I was. I watched them, but I didn’t allow them to make me fearful. I was also ready to not be a victim in the event my suspicions were correct.

There are lots of killers and rapist who have never been caught. Good looking guys who are rich, well-connected, or maybe they have power (like pastors and clergy, athletes, politicians). I have just found the people we should suspect, we don’t. The people we give passes to — don’t deserve them, and there are thousands of without criminal records looking for the next victim. The danger most women should be worried about are the people they know. People they are close to. People in their communities. Stranger danger is a terrible trope sold to women. And you’re right, the idiotic behavior simply clears the way for the good partner who will see your best.

Some of the best looking people are also some of the ugliest people!

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