I loved everything but the calling the wife piece. That was petty, but I understand we women can be emotional creatures and sometimes we don’t always make the right decisions when we find ourselves with the red licked off of our candy.
Making the wife/long-term significant other pay because you’ve been jilted was a bad move. She didn’t do anything to deserve that, and besides…she likely knows she was married to a dog. She’s likely there for the coins and gifts. Relationships are difficult and we learn from our mistakes. As we age, we get wiser. Having had my best friend sleep with my husband and finding out about it later, it’s a kick in the gut. Somethings should remain a secret indiscretion. Sleeping with someone’s husband falls into that category. Take the perks and keep it moving. Affairs are always transactional, your feelings got in the way that particular time.