I loved this essay. I’m glad to see someone addressing sexual needs and desires in a healthy way. I’ve had relationships with a few guys who loved their spouses they just weren’t satisfied sexually. Being able to address your sexual needs are extremely important and because men and women reach their sexual peaks at different times during their lives it makes good sense women would seek out a mature provider to care for their needs.
Monogamy sucks! It leaves no room for change our growth.