I loved this story! I have had similar experiences dating outside of my race. Comments that allude to how my assimilation is so well, they can be seen out with me. I’m accepted which is supposed to be validation. I loved how you spelled out the microaggressions black women experience. Everything you’ve said I’ve heard. Guarded is the perfect word to describe how we interact with many White men.

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