I must disagree. If a child tells you that a relative inserted a finger inside of her vagina or a relative had her perform oral sex on him, there is no proof. Do you just support the poor child and allow the adult to go free because your need for proof isn’t there? That’s a fatally flawed thought, and is the reason substance abuse rates and mental illness rates are out of the roof. People need proof…a word is no good.
Men, the biggest offenders often say they need proof. It’s quite telling.