I think you get it, but you gotta see color because our color makes us different. Good people are good people and they come in all shades and hues. We all must deal with racism, but as you've noted, you need to recognize your privilege, place yourself in circles where you feel most comfortable, and try your best to do no harm. Being a good neighbor is a life saver for many of us in White spaces. A friendly White face and a good heart can make all the difference for minorities living in White spaces.