If you haven’t experienced this, how can you tell me what you think? It’s the equivalent of telling a person whose parents died in a car crash you know what that’s like when both of your parents are alive and well.

Have you ever asked why is it that non-Black people feel perfectly comfortable telling victims of racism they didn’t experience what they experienced? We experience racism everywhere we go, from primary school if we aren’t in all Black education silos. It’s hard telling someone who grows telling us we are misunderstanding racism when we come out of our mother’s with training manuals on how to navigate being around White people. It’s very insulting actually. I can’t understand why White rudeness isn’t questioned. Everyone doesn’t get the privilege of doing what White people get away with. A totally missed point.

I’m sure it’s not your intention.

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