I’m there with you. Have been most of my life. Thank you AGAIN for highlighting the challenges of holidays when growing up in dysfunctional households. I don’t celebrate anything except my birthday. Most people don’t respect that. We all must be comfortable with our own morals and traditions, while respecting the morals and traditions of others. We must also mind our own damned business when one finds him or herself disapproving of the traditions or morals of others. Thanks for sharing real life!