Interesting. Well I have the mindset of Rhi-Rhi. People change. If you don’t know what you want, why settle? Even after you marry someone, it takes years for you to really, really know them. So why stay with someone you have discovered early on is not your cup of tea? He or she is not your life partner or wife material? I notice women who are financially secure tend to not be women who settle as easy as women who are seeking the protection and financial security of a provider.

As long as she’s happy, that’s all that matters. But as she disposes/tires of men, I hope she also remembers that women have a season of desirability, and once it has come and gone, or options are limited unlike men. When we hit our 40’s sisters have a hard time finding suitable companionship, as men their ages are in their sunken place-midlife crisis seeking a PYT to boost their self-esteem (speaking from personal experience lol).

Women shouldn’t worry about relationships, settling down, or starting a family. They enjoy life, enjoy sex, and learn what they want in a partner or spouse. But if they want to age with someone and not be alone, they should not tarry either. Time is not on our side. Thanks for giving us permission to break rules. I really appreciate the encouragement.

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