Is “a” Man Really Better Than No Man at All?

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  • Disrespected
  • Disregarded
  • Unfulfilled
  • Unloved
  • Sexless
  • Horny
  • Bored
  • Ignored
  • Neglected
  • Put second thru last
  • Unchallenged
  • Broken
  • Deserted ( your man may be there with you in the bed, but you are still alone)
  • Desiring more
  • Mistreated
  • Empty
  • Cheated on
  • Cheated with
  • Overlooked
  • Underachieving
  • Etc. (Add your own word(s) here)

Pray for God to give you strength and some extra brain cells to replace the ones you used trying to save your dud.

Think about it. Trust your gut. Write a pros (positives) and cons (negatives) checklist on what makes him a keeper, and compare it to the list that you made with all the thing that make him horrible. Talk to a trusted friend. Seek professional therapy, especially if you are a victim of some type of abuse. Look for sliding scale fee services if you lack insurance. Talk to your local domestic violence community about options if you are planning on leaving a violent situation.

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