Live before you die. Sometimes we limit ourselves. White men were always coming for me when I wasn’t sending for them but I was afraid. At work, at school. I missed lots of opportunities to explore because I feared what Black folks think. White and Latin men exposed me to different things and I appreciate it. Don’t wait until you’re in your 40’s like I did to enjoy life. Your sexuality and choices in partners is your business. Live longing, or life with no regrets. The only person stopping you is you.
And trust me, there are plenty of nice White men who would love to date a beautiful, smart young sister. You gotta be in the right spaces in the right places.