Meddling in the affairs of an ex for me is a no-no. If the new partner asked, I still wouldn’t tell! Very few people believe the worst about people. I did this a long time ago, and the couple turned on me. The lady continued the relationship as if she had the power to change him or as if her twat was better than mines (lol). When she finally got the gift he gives to all the ladies she wanted to come around and talk about how terrible the guy was. He did her the same way he did me. I was done with her and had no cares about her misery at that point. As far as warning a friend about someone’s actions I haven’t experienced personally, I wouldn’t share those either. If I were asked if I knew anything about a prospective shady person, depending on how close we are, I may disclose I know something, but that I did not have first-hand knowledge so the person could make their own decisions.

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