…uld be part of the problem because of their extensive resume of what they’ve “done for you people.” Instead of listening to what the women of color are trying to express, they instead whip out the Nice Things I’ve Done For Black People In The Past, which often includes everything from “says hi to the black man next door every single morning” to “saved a black child through adoption and treats them just as nicely as my white children.”
I have a black boyfriend. My husband is Black. I have a biracial child. Why can’t you be like….I work with African doctors. I don’t see color. Why aren’t you like xxx Afro-immigrant group? Not all White people. You should try xxx…. The list of excuses is exhaustive.