Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. You are correct, some women only want to serve and be on her way. She has no desire to disrupt the man’s life, forever being the blame for the demise of his marriage when in fact there were crack in the facade way before he ever tipped out. I’ve also known men who have had wives with illnesses or libido issues who were unable to perform their wifely duties and allowed the hubby to discreetly have his needs met by an outside woman. Life’s complicated. These types of arrangements makes life more tolerable.

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