That’s not a question I object to depending on the situation. Have you ever considered there are sometimes and situations you shouldn’t ask questions that help you gauge status or class? And if you aren’t guilty, what’s the problem with us being uncomfortable with the inquisitions by White people?
Basically, you’re say to me is screw Black discomfort with White inquisitions, you’re going to do what you want to do because you’re the only person that matters in the equation.
Ask whatever you want. It’s your world anyway.