Things are not so clear at times. At the end of the day, the burden is upon each and every parent to care for and protect their kids. The child was old enough to make a decision and inform her parents. They will have to live with the consequences of that. What happens when she gets too old? Will he leave her for the next kid? Not your monkey’s, not your circus.
The bad thing about it all is that if it ends badly, the corrupted, broken, emotionally undeveloped person is unleashed onto the world with a warped view of men, sex, and relationships. ..maybe.
Good for you for giving this some thought and for adding another nugget to #MeToo debate.