The men who kill people because they can’t get laid have been failed. They weren’t born that way; they were made into murderers by decades of isolation, helplessness, and shame, piled on top of grief, despair, and desperate rage that their obedience to the commands of masculinity has not granted them the satisfaction they crave unto death.
This is a very powerful statement. I used to work with victims of sexual assault and when studying the perpetrators, the majority had some type of early failures you could connect back to parenting and undiagnosed mental health disorders. The failure to learn how to connect early have a devastating impact later in life for all of us. Nurture vs. Nature.
Thanks for sharing this important topic.