This is an excellent piece, well written. I am new to this free-thinking, sex-positive world and I’m about to embark on my first threesome as well as being the third. There are many articles and posts dedicated to views and perspectives of the couple, very few of the unicorn/third in the threesome (or whatever the relationship type). I’ll be apart of a triad. So appreciative for our perspective for those of us embarking on this new experience as a third. Extremely helpful for me.