But I’m asking to be humored: Pretend a “War on Men” isn’t an absurd notion. Men should lose that war. We have done nothing to deserve victory other than fighting — largely based on birth and bank account—to preserve our ability to do whatever we want, whenever we want.
This is the most important line of the entire essay! Thank you for saying this.
Men aren’t losing anything. They still are heads of more corporations, they still posses more property, they have more money, they still hold more places in governments, they still craft more laws to govern more people than any woman ever has or probably ever will. The lie, cheat, change rules and make up bullshit to divide us just so those in power (MEN) can stay in power.
There is no war on men…but there is a war on sanity. It seems the malignant narcissist is having a field day with all the attention he’s getting. All the gaslighting and deflection. Trump and Kanye, two similar types of narcissists are turning the sane into the insane. The insane asylum is now the White House.
There are plenty of good men out here in the world. They aren’t running for political office, nor are they holding office currently. They are working, taking care of families, building up communities, mentoring, building up, teaching, inspiring and being decent people!
The good men aren’t sitting around crying like 3 year olds whining about someone not letting them have their way, and having tantrum because they can’t get what they want. They aren’t being bullies, degrading and harming those who give life to EVERY man walking and breathing on this earth.
There certainly isn’t a war on men. I wish they’d wake up. If you men feel you’re losing here in America…men, White men, likely made the rules, laws, and trade acts that have caused you to lose or fail. Blame them! Just take a look at Congressional Class photos or your state legislature. Go back 25–50 years. Remember, women don’t run anything, nor do minorities. White men are the employers and rulers of public and private America. So if you’re mad men, be mad at men…not women. Wage war with yourselves.
You’re your own worst enemy!