Think about it: to be that great at sex, you’d have to have had a lot of sex. Men don’t put a premium on a woman with a high notch count on the bedpost. So while it’s fun to reap the benefits of all that slutting around for a few nights or a few months, it’s not like you’d ever feel comfortable actually being with a promiscuous woman. Because then you’d have to wonder how many men she had been with, and inevitably, how you stack up to them.
This shit right here deserves a Pulitzer prize! If women are really good in bed and she knows how to satisfy a man, clearly she’s had to have a lot of sex unless she was blessed by the God Sex Goddess. Because men are so consumed with how many people have had sex with her prior to his digging in the snack bowl, she’s labeled. Nevermind he is allowed to explore and hone his skills in the bedroom, women fall into only 2 categories, (1) We suck in bed because we’ve had to reserve ourselves to avoid the whore label, or (2) We are sex-positive, we have thoroughly explored our sexualities and learned just how simple men are when it comes to pleasing. We are those whores that you can’t take home to your mama, but the kind that they will meet anywhere, anytime, and give anything to for the good sex!
They have the nerve to judge us for doing the same thing they do in order to get our skills up to keep them happy. It’s madness! I love this piece. Thanks for sharing!