We are an ancient Chinese secret (lol). Don’t let the cat out of the bag. Most men can’t handle mature women because we’re not coddling, into routines, keeping tabs, or jealous. Our laid-back, carefree attitudes are often mistaken for not caring (with men a little younger). I enjoy being mature these days. It makes life easier. No expectations and controlling myself are the keys to this mature woman’s happy place. Great job spilling the beans on the overlooked diamonds!