What an interesting perspective. I never thought about these women projecting their fears onto the world and how those fears could possibly make them victims. I never think someone is going to do something to me. As a matter of fact, my life has been so tough my attitude is I wish someone would give me a reason to unload on them. It would be the fight of their lives. In any event, I do believe you attract what you are. Being a lifetime victim is not a characteristic anyone should aspire to, and definitely not a trait that should be passed down to to another generation of women.

I have been a victim service provider for a long time, and I have never allowed my job to scare me or scar me. Having a victim mentality is taxing. You can’t live for fearing everything and everyone. Well, I guess people can. They just end up making up life hard for others. Thanks for reading.

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