When the racist comment more than your own folk, you know you have hit a home run. Congratulations. I completely with your sentiments and have had many of the same experiences. As the old saying goes, fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me a bunch of times…well, I’m just plain stupid.
Black people need to stop being stupid for Whiteness. We allow White people to gaslight us. You can see. Don’t keep being their fool.