Yes!!!!!!! This is so important for women and men to know. Living here in the land of the artificial person (fake hair color, fake boobs, fake butts, false teeth, hair weaves, expensive clothes), it’s sometimes difficult to be comfortable in my own skin. A few years ago I went on a natural mission and I fell in love with who I was. A few guys had some complaints about my hair (it’s natural). I stopped working hard to stay slim. I wasn’t happy.

My attitude changed with my physical attributes. My partner now appreciates all that I am, extra fluffy areas that come with aging and all. I care about character. Looks fade and most beauty by today’s standards is purchased.

I want real. I am real. And that’s all I’m ever going to be. I wish we could stop pushing unattainable beauty standards. It’s bad for our mental and emotional well-being.